Unlimited Influences: Success in Relationships
A Taste Of What You’ll Get
This weekend you will learn:
- How Life Works – The Path with Heart Model (the path, the dream, the pain, the adjustment).
- The Beginning and End of All Upsets (end upsets in minutes, not years).
- The Power of Dreams (the source of fulfillment, the key to success).
- Relationships – A New Paradigm (Relationships as a vehicle to healing – unlimited intimacy – personal power).
- The Greatest Key to Influence (The key to what you can be, do, or have).
- An Experiential Taste of Your True Self – Strengths Showers.
- A Revolution in Communication – called “Coaching Communication.”
- How to Melt Your Favorite Jerk – to Disarm Verbal Attackers – from Monsters to Teddy Bears.
- That the Essence of Who You Are is a Message – that all of your life’s victories and defeats, your best and worst times, will all revolve around this message of your soul. You will discover that once you find a career or activity that expresses your message, you will have found your purpose and your destiny.
- A Very Powerful and Moving Visualization – where you will learn how to identify your message in the things you love the most!
- The Key Differences between Men & Women – & how to speak the other’s language.
- The 3 Steps of the “Magic Formula for Couples” & the 3 Steps to “Making Relationships Work.”
- Watch One Very Lucky Couple do a Demonstration – of how they can take a topic that they have gotten upset about, slammed doors about, and withheld sex about (for years), and watch them demonstrate true communication – in a win-win way, and when it’s over they will be touched, and loving, and hopeful!
- You Will Get to Practice These Incredible Skills!
- An Unprecedented Way to Resolve Problems and Upsets!
- You Will Experience a Profoundly Inspiring Way – to feel clear and resolved with all of your relationships!
- A Visualization – where you get to experience what it would be like to have the “Magic Wand of Communication”, and be able to get through to those people you’ve had the biggest trouble with, and to get through to everyone who means the most to you!
- Witness Several Moving and Touching Demonstrations of True Communication – quite often the kind of true communication you only witness at someone’s deathbed!
- How to Anchor in The Value You’ve Received – to actually take it with you.
- The Power to Enroll – one of the keys to being successful in any field.
- How to Manifest Money – out of the blue – to call it forth – have it come to you: “Success Stories.”
- A Series of Games and Exercises – all designed to show you the power of breaking out of self-imposed barriers and limitations, and the power of freedom. You will be able to stretch beyond your fears and limits, and experience a joy and fulfillment you may not be able to imagine.
- How to Create Satisfaction and Fulfillment – under any conditions or circumstances.
- How to Create Ecstasy in ANY or ALL – of your relationships!
Creating a Conscious Relationship: the Four Stages
STAGE I: ATTRACTING RELATIONSHIPS
- We attract our unfinished selves: the people who mirror our own unresolved issues, the people who push our emotional “buttons.”
- We always attract people with whom we have the most to learn because they represent the opportunity to resolve and be complete withour issues.
- The more we resist our own issues, doubts, fears, etc., the more we attract people and situations which do push our buttons, causing us to become upset.
- Our upsets are unlearned lessons. Until we face the issue and learn the lesson, we create “bigger and better” situations so that we can recognize and learn the lesson. If we don’t learn it this time, no problem! The Universe is so kind it will make sure we get the lesson again, only “bigger and better.”
STAGE II: ATTEMPTING TO GET THROUGH (TO CHANGE ‘THEM’)
- We approach relationships from the perspective, “If only he/she would change. . . then I’d be happy and fulfilled.” The changes we want for them are fine. However, our strategies often inhibit any real growth.
- Our attempts to change others contain fundamental and very specific messages.
- Typically we express these messages in two non-working modes: PASSIVE (put up with, ignore, swallow feelings, withhold judgments, etc.) or AGGRESSIVE (attack-verbally or nonverbal- put down, judge, make wrong, find fault, blame, strike out, etc.)
- While we continue to use these ineffective methods time after time, year after year, we wonder why they don’t get our messages, why theydon’t see the light!
- All perception is projection. So all of our messages to others are projections! Regardless of the accuracy of our messages to our partners, these messages are ultimately directed to that aspect of ourselves which is mirrored in them. Our messages are ultimately meant for ourselves.
- Stage II is where 99% of the planet’s current relationships are stuck. Few have tasted what is now available: the ability to create a Healing Relationship as a vehicle for manifesting potential.
STAGE III: GETTING THROUGH: OUR HEALING
- Our messages have the power to heal others, to empower them, to accelerate their growth, to set them free and to bring them home!
- If we can learn New Skills which empower us to get our messages across, then others will really hear us. When they hear us, we really hear the message ourselves! The instant they get it, we can and actually do, get it for the first time!
- As others finally recognize us (who we are, our true magnificence), we finally recognize ourselves!
- As we forgive them, we are forgiven! As they are healed, we are healed!
- Until we learn to get through to them, we rob ourselves of our own forgiveness, resolution, and healing.
STAGE IV: HEALING AS THE REALIZATION OF PURPOSE AND DESTINY
- The process called healing has a promise for us. The promise of healing is the realization of our own higher purpose, our mission, our expression and contribution. We came to learn what we came to teach.
- We chose to create every battle of our lives in order to develop certain resources, in order to create a personality that would match our spirit – one capable of giving our particular gift.
- As we participate in the continuous realization of our partner’s potential and healing, they naturally come to realize their purpose and destiny.
- As they realize their purpose and destiny . . . so do we!
Questions or Reservations
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Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate.
Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.
It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us.
We ask ourselves who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous?
Who are you not to be? You are a child of God.
You’re playing small does not serve the world.
There’s nothing enlightening about shrinking
So other people won’t feel insecure around you.
We are born to manifest the glory of God in us.
It is not is some of us, it’s in all of us.
As we let our light shine,
We unconsciously allow others to do the same.
As we are liberated from fear,
Our presence automatically liberates others.
Marianne Williamson’s quote
Spoken by Nelson Mandela in his inaugural speech